Holding and handling baby
A newborn baby can appear very fragile and, at first, many parents are quite scared to pick up and handle their baby because of the feeling that he's so breakable. Your baby is actually very resilient and, as long as you support him firmly, there's no need to be afraid.
Give your baby a firm support
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Even if he's crying to be picked up, don't use jerky or quick movements when lifting him - do it as slowly, as gently, and as quietly as you can. Most babies like to be handled in a firm way; it makes them feel more secure. He won't be able to support his head for several weeks so you'll have to support it so that it doesn't loll. Always hold your baby close, keeping your arms close to your body, and bending over the place you're lifting from or putting down. To put him down, reverse the process of picking him up, always supporting his neck. When you lay your baby down, it's safest to put him on his back, or his side, if propped.
Give your baby a loving support
A mother often feels prime responsibility for her newborn baby, but most partners are keen to be fully involved as early as possible. Both your baby and his father will be able to develop a better understanding of each other through cuddling, handling, and carrying, and the more tactile their relationship, the more loving it will be.
All through the day, especially when changing him, you can discover ways to gently explore and caress his body. The best way to cuddle together is by lying naked in bed. In this way, he can smell your skin, feel its touch and warmth, and hear your heart beating clearly.
Physical contact - benefits for your baby
Recent research has shown that the more physical contact babies have, the healthier and happier they become.
You can appeal to your baby's sense of rhythm by rocking and swaying him. Skin-to-skin contact stimulates his senses of touch and smell, and even helps him to grow. Human skin sends and receives warmth that has a positive effect on other human skins. Snuggling together will evoke a feeling of sensuous contentment.
Physical contact - benefits for you
From the moment your baby is born you can develop a special feeling of intimacy by holding him close to your bare skin.
Skin-to-skin contact enables you to become intimate with your baby. You will enjoy “skin bathing” with your baby - the feel of his soft, warm skin against yours, and the wonderful smell of newborn baby.
When you're feeding, whether by breast or bottle, don't let a barrier of clothing always come between you. You'll both benefit from holding him close against your bare skin - not least as he'll begin to recognize your smell (a key step in the bonding process, especially if you're not breastfeeding).
Posted 16.11.2010
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